How to Write to an Inmate: Addressing, Rules and Tips

Writing to someone in prison is simple once you know the format. Most returned letters come down to a missing inmate number, a missing return address, or something in the envelope the facility doesn't allow. Here's how to get it right the first time.

1. Find their inmate number and facility

Every letter needs the person's inmate ID number (also called a DOC number, booking number or, in federal prison, a register number). Look them up with the state's official inmate locator, or the Federal Bureau of Prisons locator for federal prisons. County jails usually have their own search on the sheriff's website.

Tip: Our Find an Inmate pages link to the official locator for every state, plus the federal locator.

2. Get the facility's mailing address

Use the mailing address listed on the corrections department's website, not the street address from a map. Many prisons receive mail at a PO Box, and a growing number send all personal mail to a central processing address that scans it (more on that below).

3. Address the envelope the right way

Put the person's full committed name and inmate number on the first line, then the facility name and mailing address. A typical format looks like this:

  • John A. Smith #123456
  • Name of Correctional Institution
  • PO Box 000
  • City, State ZIP

Always include your full name and return address in the top left corner. Most facilities won't deliver mail without one, and it's where they'll write back.

4. Keep the letter simple

  • Plain white paper and a plain white envelope.
  • Blue or black ink. Dark, clear writing scans and copies well.
  • No stickers, glitter, perfume, lipstick, tape, staples or paper clips.
  • Nothing tucked inside unless the facility allows it (photos have their own rules).
  • Put your name and address on the letter itself too, in case it's separated from the envelope.

5. Know that mail may be scanned

Many state prison systems and county jails no longer hand out paper mail. Letters go to a processing center, get scanned, and the person reads them on a tablet or kiosk. The original is often destroyed. Your letter still arrives; it just arrives as an image, which is why plain paper and dark ink matter.

6. Be patient

Every letter is inspected before it's delivered, so allow anywhere from a few days to two weeks. Replies take just as long, and people inside often have to buy paper and stamps from commissary. A slow reply rarely means they aren't interested.

Find where someone is held

Every state's official inmate locator, the federal locator, and how writing works in each state.

Find an inmate by state

Common questions

1.

Can I write to an inmate without knowing their inmate number?

Sometimes, but it's the most common reason mail is returned. Look the number up with the state or federal inmate locator before you send anything.

2.

Can I use a PO Box as my return address?

Usually yes. Many families and pen pals use a PO Box or virtual mailbox for privacy. A few facilities require a street address, so check their mail rules.

3.

Can I send stamps or envelopes?

It depends on the facility. Some allow a few stamps or pre-stamped envelopes, and many ban them. Check the rules first, because a banned item usually gets the whole letter returned.

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Rules change and differ by facility. Always check the facility's own mail rules before you send anything.