Coming home: the checklist

What people actually need in the first weeks after prison, in the order they tend to need it. Use it to get ready yourself, or as a shopping list if you're a family member helping someone come home. Buy only what you need: a lot of this can also come from donations, thrift stores and reentry programs.

Release day

Many facilities let family drop off or mail release clothes ahead of time, but each one has its own rules on what's allowed and when. Call the facility or check its website before you buy.

A release outfit

Something comfortable and plain that fits well. A sweatsuit or joggers and a t-shirt is the easiest choice when you're not sure of sizes.

Comfortable shoes

Slip-on sneakers are forgiving on sizing and go with anything.

A backpack

Release paperwork, medication and everything else you walk out with needs somewhere to go.

A wallet with an ID window

For your release papers, state ID and Social Security card once you have them.

Get connected

A phone is how you reach your parole or probation officer, employers and family, and most job applications are online now.

A prepaid smartphone

No contract and no credit check. Pick a plan you can pay month to month.

A charger and power bank

Buses, job sites and waiting rooms don't always have outlets.

Personal care

Small things that help someone feel like themselves again in the first week.

A toiletry kit

Toothbrush, deodorant, razor and the rest, in one bag that travels.

Reading glasses

Cheap multipacks are fine for forms and phone screens until an eye exam.

Work and job interviews

Most entry-level interviews call for clean, simple clothes, not a suit. Warehouse, construction and delivery jobs often require safety boots from day one.

An interview outfit

A plain button-down shirt and khakis or black pants covers almost any interview.

Work boots

Many warehouse and construction jobs require steel or composite toe boots.

A watch and a planner

Parole check-ins, appointments and shifts add up fast. Being on time matters.

A document folder

Keep your ID, birth certificate, release papers and job paperwork together and safe.

Setting up a room or apartment

The basics for a halfway house room, a shared place or a first apartment.

Bedding

A bed-in-a-bag set covers sheets, a comforter and pillowcases in one purchase.

Kitchen starter set

Pots, a pan, plates and utensils so you can cook for yourself and stretch a budget.

Towels

Often forgotten, always needed.

For families welcoming someone home

A thoughtful welcome makes the first day easier. Keep it simple and practical.

A welcome-home snack box

Familiar favorites after years of commissary food.

A journal

For goals, appointments and thoughts during a big transition.

Free help before you spend

Reentry programs, churches and community groups often give out clothes, hygiene kits and bus passes for free. Call or text 2-1-1 for programs near you, and see our housing & basics guide for replacing your ID and getting benefits.

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